Use current pictures.
I think the number one concern men AND women share is that the person they meet won’t look like the pictures they used online.
I’ve had this happen to me a few times and needless to say it is disappointing and you feel…cheated, lied to. And essentially you were.
Use recent pics that show what you look like, today. Not ten years ago when your hair was longer and you were twenty pounds lighter. Be honest about who you are today because that is the person the man will meet … and expect.
If he sees you look different from what you presented as you today, chances are good he will walk away before your first meeting is up, or you won’t hear from him again, simply because you lied, and, really, how can he trust you going forward?
You will want the same from the men you date. But they will lie and conceal too. That doesn’t mean you should start a relationship based on a lie and half truth because men might do it to you.
So I say it again…
Flirting With Perception 